Downton Abbey, Season Three

I decided to skip watching the reruns over the past few weeks, which worked out well watching last night. But I've forgotten most of the names of the characters so I have to keep a list open in front of me as I type this. (Which unfortunately just spoiled me for something, blast it! Avoid Wikipedia if you don't like spoilers!)

This season we learn Mary looks awful in red (one thing actress Michelle Dockery and I share). More importantly we learn( spoilery about this episode )